Have you dreamt of your boyfriend cheating? Before you make any assumptions or jump to any conclusions, it is necessary for you to realize that dreams are not real. You may choose to ignore the dreams or may indulge in them and think about them for hours and even days. But you should not allow hasty impacts of the dreams on your relationship, your own health or your life in general. What you should do is try and understand the dream and get to the cause of such dreams. Some dreams don’t have any reason or are not distinct and hence they cannot be interpreted. However, most dreams have some reason and can be interpreted in many ways. Here is how you should approach dream interpretation of boyfriend cheating.
Getting a Grip on Reality
First, you need to understand a few realities. Dreams happen because of some thought that is already existent in your conscious or subconscious mind. That thought propels or creates the foundation of the dream. You need to know what this thought is that has caused the dream which will then allow its interpretation.
Second, you should accept the reality that most dreams are a result of one’s own psychological condition and not because someone intentionally influenced it. In that sense, dream interpretation of boyfriend cheating is more about your insecurity in the relationship than the boyfriend actually cheating in real life.
What It All Means
A degree of insecurity exists in every relationship, more so when the bond is new or young. The severity or the lightness of the insecurity may vary. You have to address this insecurity if you wish to do away with these dreams. However, insecurity is not always a product of one’s own psyche or thoughts. It is often fueled or even caused by the boyfriend. Men or boys with a history of cheating or not paying enough attention to their girlfriends, being rather comfortable and close or intimate with many women or girls in a nonsexual manner and being a little aloof of the girlfriend’s emotions are likely to cause and fuel insecurity. The problems should be addressed to deal with the dreams.
One should make a distinction in every case. Being neglected by the boyfriend, fear of abandonment, low self esteem or/and lack of trust will cause insecurity and they will lead to dreams of boyfriend cheating.
In some rare cases, dream interpretation of boyfriend cheating is the boyfriend actually cheating. It so happens that our conscious mind is unable to notice the finer elements or signs that indicate a person is cheating. These signs or finer elements, if recorded by the subconscious mind, may lead to dreams of boyfriend cheating.